It really annoys me when kids playing games will kick the ball out of play. Don't give me that "there's a time and a place for it" rubbish. When they're playing competitively as adults, the philosophy of the manager is gospel. If the manager says don't try to turn or pass, just hoof it into row Z when you're in trouble, that's exactly what you do. If that's all you ever tell your kids to do, that's all they will learn. Winning is important in the sense that we need to be competitive, and have the will to win. What is more important is that your players have the skills required for success when they are older. Yes, I want to win. What I really want to win is the game when they are twenty-four and playing in a top league, deciding titles. If a player wins a cup final by using something I taught them, that is worth more than ten million wins at U13 level. So let's get it right now, and give them the tools for success in their later years.
We started to see improvements in these areas straight away. I think the nerves and the jump in level gave some of them a fright, and they struggled to adapt. This provided a clear picture to them of what is expected. As a club, we gave them tons of information at the start of the season. I believe a lot of them read a lot of it. Perhaps it was too advanced. Perhaps they couldn't relate it to their own game. What I created here isn't reinventing the wheel, nor is it rocket science. A lot of it is basic common sense and should be ingrained in them already. It's more of a reminder, and a way to get them to adhere to minimum standards. A singer that forgets their lines is not a bad singer. It's not the singing we're judging them for, it's just that they've forgotten how to do that.
Many clubs or organisations have a philosophy or code of conduct. They are fantastic guidelines for coaches, players, and parents. There's nothing wrong with becoming more specific with your own group. If they don't get it, or are repeat offenders in certain areas, emphasise those areas. It's another way of reminding them, and it looks cool too. I'm clearly no genius with computers, as it's all a bit rough round the edges, but I can do enough to get my point across. Plus it's fun.
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